When a natural child to the age of three years less severe bouts of anger and rates Taatkarha to become more able to express themselves and more concerned with matters of life to distract him from these behaviors.
But it does not apply to children with intellectual disabilities remain where the language is less developed and therefore less able to express himself verbally and feelings is a matter of oppression of the Child and the large number of his anger as a means to express emotions and feelings.
It is therefore essential for parents, teachers and caregivers to learn how to properly deal with the tantrums of the child and control and be Anakaz by taking into account the following:
• Routing messages positive
By giving the child positive messages and clear about the things expected of it taking into account that not be the highest of his abilities and energies, in addition to positive specific instructions like saying: "I expect you to behave politely during the visit and I know you're capable of doing so."
• Emotional venting
To be the mother of the child the opportunity to vent anger many expressed anger from time to time and training on the use of his body in a positive way through sports and hobbies outside the home or insid
• taking into account the child's ability to tradition
For children up to those with disabilities a great ability to imitate the way adults express their anger, there are the parents of reflecting the anger of the air, the entire family has used violence and depriving them of his anger by hitting a pillow or go out for a walk.
• not to succumb to the anger of the child
Some teachers and parents through a mistake to bow to the wishes of the child MEET When angry, giving him what he was working on calming the child some time, but it leads to constantly turn the child for this behavior to get what he wants.
• ignore
Experience has shown that ignoring the child into fits of rage lead to positive results, especially when aimed at children from which to draw the attention of others. And this is ignoring the anger of the child and the mother to move away, but after giving him a hint that when the rest will meet their needs and to the mother or teacher to be patient because the unit may increase the anger of the child in the first moments of the ignored but soon calm down after a while.
• Dealing with tantrums outside the home
May happen to enter the child in a fit of anger outside the home when the child wants to get something against the wishes of the mother, especially since a lot of shopping centers, parks and entertainment places contain a lot of things the child may wish to obtain.
The problem here was the lack of child neglect in public places because the behavior will be embarrassing or annoying others, and may also harm the child himself and must therefore act with calm and low voice as a child that anger began to seep into the mother could enhance his behavior.
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